Alien Story
Sunday, September 4th, 2005When is the last time you did something for the first time ? I was asked by my buddy just now again do I have any alien story. Alien story is coined by us and we used it personally as any story that makes it to the headlines of our own bulletin. For example : An unexpected person called today or that one of us have bumped into a common friend that we have not met for a super long time. You know things like that.
Alien story makes our lives more meaningful in a sense. Ironically it does. If life goes by just normally it is always so mundane and boring. The so called meaning comes in when we are experiencing something fresh. Maybe to a begger his alien story is someone gave him a 100 dollar note. Or maybe not there after because he needs something more alien or should i say more unexpected like someone passing him a lottery ticket.
We get more and more jaded as we experience life. As a child a lot of things are so facinating to us. But as we experience more and see more our senses gets numb. Our definition of extreme goes more extreme.
Is it good to us ? Some can say that it makes us more creative and more open to “wierd ” things. Which i have to agree is good to us. It has personally made me a more tolerant person. I have a wide scope of friends. I can accept many ideas and see it from their point of view as compared to maybe any tom dick and harry. But I do also understand that it gently breaks me away from the ability of feeling “normal”. No longer am i a good yard stick to gauge what a normal person will be able to feel. I may say things so normal to me but disgust others. I may ask questions that seem so normal to me and yet easily scoffed or despise by others.
So next time when someone comes to you and ask ” How is your day ? ” Would you choose to answer him in a more interesting way ? Surprise him and surprise yourself. With enough practise maybe you will get to understand more why i always as people ” Do you love your girl/boy friend ? ”